Sunday, July 25, 2010

IELTS TOPICS AND TIPS

Section 2 IELTS SPEAKING
Describe a foreign person that you like. You should say:
- where you met him/her
- why you like him/her
- and explain what you learnt from him/her


Describe an interesting advertisement that you have seen. You should say:
  • where you saw it
  • what it was about
  • why you think it was an interesting advertisement
Describe a well-known person. You should say,
  • Who he/she is?
  • What makes him/her famous?
  • Why you admire him/her?




      Discussion:
  1. Do you want to become famous?
  2. How to become a well-known person in China?
  3. What kind of people can become famous in China?
  4. What are the advantages and disadvantages of being famous?
  5. What do you think of the privacy of a well-known person?
  6. What do you think of the relationship between a well-know person and advertising?
  7. Would you be influenced by the well-known persons in TV commercials?
  8. Do you often talk about singers with your friends? What do you often talk about?



Describe an environmental problem. You should say,
  • What it is?
  • How long it has existed.
  • What effect it has brought to people’s life./ What it happens?
  • What we can do to solve it.
  • Describe any law which you like,
  • - explain what law that is,
  • - how you will follow it,
  • - what you like the most about it
Tell me about a conversation, which happened recently, you should say:


- why was it important

- who was that person that you had the conversation with

- when was it

- describe what did you learn from that conversation





An adventurous person

Describe an adventurous person who you know.

You should say:

• who the person is

• how you know this person

• what this person does that is adventurous

and explain why you think this person likes to take risks.



A photograph


Describe a photograph that you remember.

You should say:

• when it was taken

• who took it

• what is in the photograph

and explain why you remember this photograph













A news story

Describe some interesting news that you have recently read about or heard about

You should say:

• what the story was

• who was involved in the story

• where you read or heard about this story

and explain why this news story was interesting to you.
















TIPS: Speaking
PART 1
1. Don't use the wrong verb tense when you reply.

2. You can practice speaking by recording your voice and playing it back and listening to it.

3. Try to rephrase words.

4. Practice cohesive phrases.

5. It's difficult to think about grammar when you're trying to speak.
   I think it's much easier to improve your vocabulary score than your grammar score.

6. Can you use the past tense when describing a person who is still alive?

7. Which tense should you use when describing a person?

8. Do the 3 parts of the speaking test carry equal weighting when your score
    is calculated, or is one part more important?

9. Remember that in part 2 you are always asked to "describe".

10. In the IELTS speaking test, 25% of your score is for pronunciation.
     Many students confuse 'pronunciation' with 'accent'.
     These are not the same thing!

11. IELTS Speaking Part 2: forget about eye contact.

12. IELTS Speaking Part 3: "it depends"
      Many students answer questions in IELTS speaking part 3 by saying
      "it depends".

13. IELTS Speaking Part 3: adding details
    These are the 3 techniques I use to create longer, more detailed answers:

14. How do you answer a question when you don't know anything about the topic?
    There are 2 things you can do:

15.A) If the examiner uses a word or phrase that you don't understand,
     say something like:
   B) If you simply didn't hear something that was asked, respond with:
   C) If you want to make sure you've understood what the examiner has asked
       you could say:

Explanations

4.  As a child,
5.  Grammar is only 25% of your speaking score.
     If you are thinking too much about grammar, you will lose fluency.
     If you try to use memorised grammatical structures, your speech
     will not sound 'natural'.
     You will not avoid small grammar mistakes unless you have lived in an
     English speaking  country for many years.
6.  The answer to the first question is yes. You can say: "My father was always
     a good role model  for me when I was growing up." This doesn't mean that
     your father is no longer alive; it just means that you are no longer growing up!
7.  The answer to the second question is it depends. As we saw above, you can
     use the past tense,  but it would also be easy to add the present and/or future tense:
     "My father was always kind to me when I was a child, and he still helps me
     whenever I need something. I'm sure he will always be there for me."
8.  The simple answer is that the 3 parts are not scored separately; the examiner
     rates the student's performance as a whole. In this sense, neither part is
     more important.
9.  Make sure you prepare some good adjectives for each topic, make sure you
     can talk about your opinions and feelings, and think about some examples
     or stories to make your descriptions more interesting.
10. Nobody expects you to speak with a perfect British English accent. In fact,
      the examiner will not judge your accent at all.

    Your pronunciation score is based on these things:

    clarity (speaking clearly)
    speed (not too fast, not too slow)
    word stress
    sentence stress
    intonation (the rise and fall of your voice)
11. Many students worry that they need to maintain eye contact with the examiner.
     This is a good idea  in part 1 and part 3, but not necessarily in part 2.

    In part 2 of the speaking test, you don't need to worry about eye contact.
    It's more important  to look at the question and the notes you made.

    Use the question to organise what you are saying. Answer the question
    point by point, and make sure you cover all parts of the task.
    You should also look at your notes. Hopefully you wrote down some
    good ideas during the preparation time.

    Remember: the examiner will not reduce your score for lack of eye contact,
   but he/she will reduce your score if you don't answer the question well.
12. "It depends" is not a full answer. What does it depend on, and why?
    Example question:
    Do you think it's important to find a job that you love, or is it more important to
    earn a good salary?
    Don't say:
    "It depends. Some people prefer to find a job they love, but other people
     want to earn a good salary.
    " (This answer just repeats the question)

    Do say:
    "Personally, I'd prefer to do a job that I really enjoy; as long as I earn enough
     to live comfortably,  the salary is less important. However, I can see the benefits
    of doing a job that you don't like if  it pays well. With a good salary, you can
    probably do more enjoyable things in your free time."
13. Explain why
    Give an example
    Explain the alternatives

   Question:
   Why do you think friendship is important?

   Answer:
   I think friendship is important for all sorts of reasons. (why?) We need friends
   to share experiences with, to talk to, and for support. (example?) In my case,
   I like to meet up with friends at the weekend to do something enjoyable, like
   see a film or go out for dinner. I like chatting with  my friends about what
   we've been doing during the week, or about what's happening in the world.
   (alternatives?) Without friends to talk to, life would be dull and boring; we
   would only have our families to talk to.
14. Be honest and explain why you don't know
     Guess, and tell the examiner that you are guessing

   Example question:

   How has technology affected the kinds of music that are popular with young people?

   My answer, using both tips above:
 
  (1) To be honest I don't really know the answer to that because I'm completely
       out of touch with what young people are listening to, and I'm not a fan
       of pop music.
  (2) However, I suppose that technology must have affected music. Maybe young people
       are listening to music that has been made using computer software instead of real
       musical instruments like the piano or guitar.
15.A) "Sorry but could you explain what you mean by ........" or
      "I haven't come across that word/expression before. Could you explain what you mean?
   B) "Excuse me, I didn't quite catch that. Could you say that again?"
      "I'm sorry, but would you mind repeating that?"
   c) "Do you mean ........"
      "When you say ........, do you mean/are you asking ........?

PART 2
 16.-ing and -ed adjectives

17. You cannot use VERY with adjectives that already have an absolute meaning.

18. USEFUL LINKING EXPRESSIONS

19. What changes have there been in recent years in employment in your country?

20. IELTS Grammar: opinion + conditional

    Try this useful technique for IELTS writing and speaking:

    Give an opinion, then follow it with a conditional sentence.

21. IELTS Grammar: lead, contribute, result

    Students often make mistakes with the verbs lead, contribute and result.
    Try to correct the sentences below.

    1. Qualifications and skills may lead to get promotions.
    2. Lack of exercise contributes to have an unhealthy body.
    3. Violence on television is one factor that results to increase the crime rate.

       What is the rule for these 3 verbs?

22. "Can you explain while, whilst, whereas, as?

23. When you can't remember an English word,
    use other words!
    How to explain what you mean:

24. Expressing a Preference .

25. You cannot use " Almost similar".

26. A very useful English expression you can use to get a better score on the IELTS test is
   "On one hand... but on the other hand...".

27. Making a Summary in English.

28. How to Speculate in English.

29. By contrast / In contrast

30. On the contrary





       Explantions



16. Adjectives ending in -ing are often used to describe something.
    This TV programme is boring.
    Adjectives ending in -ed are often used to say how you feel.
    I'm bored.
    I'm surprised.
    I'm confused.
    I'm tired.

17.fascinating, revolting


18. Useful Linking Expressions

Explaining causes

    caused by
    due to
    because of
    a result of

Explaining effects

    leads to
    results in
    causes

19. I think there have been many changes in the types of jobs that people
     do nowadays compared to 20 or 30 years ago. First of all there are
     much fewer jobs related to heavy industry such as mining or ship-building
     or even manufacturing. Secondly, there has been a big increase in the
     number of jobs in the service and leisure industries like shops, gyms,
    and hotels. And finally, since the launch of the internet there has been a big
    surge in the number of jobs related to IT, such as web development and design.

20. Look at these examples:

    In my opinion, governments should invest more money in public transport.
   If rail and bus services were more reliable, fewer people would need to drive.
   
    Schools have an important role to play in children's health. If schools banned
   junk food,  they would help to reduce the problem of childhood obesity.
   
    In the future I think more people will do their shopping online. But if Internet shopping
   becomes  more popular, many traditional shops will lose customers.

I've underlined the conditionals. Examples 1 and 2 are second conditionals,
while 3 uses the first conditional.

Practice:
Prepare your own "opinion + conditional" ideas for different topics. Having a few
 of these ideas ready could help you in the writing and speaking tests.

21. REMEMBER:

    lead to + noun

    contribute to + noun

    result in + noun

    NOTE:

    It's ok use the "ING" form e.g. "lead to getting promotions", but it's better without it.

22. Here's my simplified explanation:

    While and whilst are the same, but whilst is a bit more formal (according to one
    famous grammar book).  Whereas is always used for contrast. While/whilst can be
    used for contrast, OR to mean "at the same time".
    As can mean "because" or "exactly at the moment when".

23. There are five ways to explain your meaning: 1) use simple words to explain,
      2) use opposites, 3) compare to other things, 4) say what it is NOT, and
      5) use examples.

24. •  I prefer A to B because...
    •  If I have a choice, I will... (a real possibility)
    •  If I had a choice, I would... (not a real possibility, just wishing)
    •  For me, A is much more attractive / interesting / preferable than B because...

25. You can say almost the same as...

    They look almost the same to me.

26. Question - Who is the better basketball player, Tom or Jack? Answer, using contrast -
    On the one hand, Tom is taller than Jack. On the other hand, Jack is quicker and stronger.

27. Here are some more advanced phrases. If you can just use one of these at the right time
    during the IELTS test, it will show that you have good ability in English.

    Example 1: Looking at the whole picture, it is clear that...

    Example 2: Considering all the points mentioned, we can see that...

    Example 3: We can see from this discussion that...

28. The word "speculate" in English is basically the same as "guess"!
     When you guess about something -  about the future, about an idea, about a situation
     that is not certain, or about any unknown situation,  you can simply use the
     future tense in English if you believe strongly in your idea.

    If + past participle + conditional
    Example: If the world were coming to an end, we would be lucky to find a spaceship
    so we could escape!

    When you are talking about a conditional situation (not a real situation) in English,
    be sure to continue using the conditional tense as you describe possible results.
    For example, after talking about  having a spaceship above, you could say:

    If we had a spaceship, we could fly to the moon or to Mars.
    We would have to be careful to choose the best people who could help us live in our new world
    We might have some trouble from people who are not chosen to come with us in our spaceship!.

29. I often use these two phrases in both writing task 1 and 2.
     They are exactly the same, and are used   in a similar way to "however"
     or "on the other hand" to introduce a contrast / comparison.
     Put "By / In contrast" at the beginning of a sentence, with a comma after "contrast".

    Example
    Unemployment rose in the UK. By contrast, the number of unemployed people
     in Canada fell.

30. I've never used this phrase in any of my IELTS lessons. It doesn't mean
      the same thing as "by / in contrast".
    We use "on the contrary" to deny that something is true, and to explain
     that the opposite is true.

Example
- Person 1: "You had some problems with your hotel, didn't you?"
- Person 2: "On the contrary, the hotel was great, but the airline lost my suitcase."

IELTS SPEAKING TOPICS

1. What is the character of the people like in your country?

2. Name a person whom you admire. Why?

3. Which is your favourite colour?

4. If you had a chance , would you have a son or a daughter?

5. Are you going to bring up your child any differently to the way your parents did?

6. If you could start your life again, would you do anything differently?

7. The man in the seat next to you is smoking, What do you say?

8. What is your opinion about recycling?

9. Someone asks you a question you do not want to answer. What do you say?

10. Describe a place you will never forget.
TIPS:
1.speak until they stop you, don't just answer the question and stop.
2. accuracy
3. don't give off topic answers
4. 3rd part-describe things, compare and contrast, provide an opinion

Candidates often forfiet accuracy for quantity in a bid to impress examiner in speaking test
The IELTS test is a test of English accuracy.



In each of the following pairs of sentences, one sentence is correct, and the other incorrect. Choose which you think is
correct in each pair and then look at the answers to see if you were correct:
1.
a. I study about engineering.
b. I study engineering

2.
a. The movie was very funny.
b. The movie was very fun.

3.
a. I went many places on my holiday.
b. I went to everywhere on my holiday.

4.
a. I am exciting too much.
b. I am very excited.

5.
a. Many temples beautiful.
b. Many beautiful temples.

6.
a. Nowadays.
b. Nowsaday.

7.
a. The government should improve public transport.
b. Government should to improve public transports.

8.
a. I go to shopping everyday.
b. I go shopping everyday

9.
a. I like playing computers.
b. I like using computers.


10.
a. I am not liking hot weather.
b. I don't like hot weather.



Answer Key 1. b 2. a 3. a 4. b 5. b 6. a 7. a 8. b 9. b 10. b
Talk about something that you lost. Please say

- What was it?
- Where did you lose it?
- How did you feel about it?

Describe a situation in which you were very polite. Please say

- Where did it happen?
- How did you show that you were polite?
- Explain why were you so polite?

Describe a photograph of yourself that you like.
You should say:
When and where the photograph was taken,
what was happening at that time, who took the photograph,
and explain why you like this photograph of yourself.

You should talk about an interesting and impressive speech or talk you have heard,
you should say:

- Who was the speaker
- Where have you heard the speech
- What it was about


Describe something that you learned about another culture. You should say

- What did you learn?
- What is the new culture?
- How did you find out about it?

Describe a sporting event you attended.
You should say:
What kind of sport it was
How it compared to other events you’ve been to
How often it takes place
Explain why you consider this event to be of interest.

Describe a child that you know. Who is he/she?
Your relation,
what does he/she like,
and how has he/she influenced you?

 

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

AMERICAN TV SERIES

GABON

EPISODE1
It's definitely an unnerving experience.-Marcus
EPISODE2
That seemed to bring the mood up a little bit.-G.C.
I'm a pretty analytical thinker.-Dan
I'm a walking target.-Jilian
Catch me up on what's happened in the last few days.
Otherwise were doomed.-Jilian
EPISODE 3
Fong clearly has the momentum.
EPISODE4
Evening us up at 7-7.
One of the most lopsided challenges thus far.
EPISODE5
On the flipside,-Marcus
You haven't told anybody, have you?-
EPISODE6
Crystal knocked it over.-Sugar
EPISODE7
This challenge is officially underway.
EPISODE8
It could have been me tonight.-Ken
EPISODE9
It will show through.-Randy
EPISODE1O
Sugar snatched it up.
EPISODE11
Fill up your belly.
EPISODE12
Do you think that's all it was?
EPISODE13
I don't do outdoorsy thing.-Kenny
Shed your obligation-Marcus
EPISODE14
I got cocky.-Kenny












AFRICA
EPISODE1
This issue is cut and dry.-Lex
EPISODE2
Anybody wanna own up this is tougher...
EPISODE 3
...under this condition will be tough...
If you don't bend, you break.
Generation gap continues to fracture the tribe.
EPISODE 4
I'm a walking mistake.-Lindsay
EPISODE5
They did not go along with the plan.
EPISODE6
wet your whistle
I wish I would have been here from day one.-Frank
My dignity took over.-Lindsay
EPISODE7
My stomach is rumbling.-Clarence
EPISODE 8
If that's he case, Good riddance.-Lex
EPISODE9
The guy is always in the sour mood.-Lex
You shoot yourself in the foot.-Kim
EPISODE10
What goes through your head now?
You gotta look out for yourself in the end.-Ethan
EPISODE11
Gain inner strength.-Kim P.
EPISODE12
It's not physical. Strictly mental.
If he's about to screw me over and stab me in the back, I'll
cut his throat.-Lex
EPISODE13
This has been the ultimate adventure for me.-Ethan
I thought I would have done better.-Ethan
REUNION
You can't afford to sleep.-Kelly

cut and dry ordinary
own up admit
go along with agree
wet your whistle f you are thirsty and have an alcoholic drink, you wet your whistle.
"Whet your whistle" is also used.
good riddance An expression of pleasure on being rid of some annoyance -
usually an individual.




























Samoa
EPISODE1
What kind of life do you want to live?
It makes me weary.-Marisa
EPISODE2
Who the hell hammers in the middle of the night?-Betsy
EPISODE3
Ben put people on edge.
I just used my brilliant brain.-Russell
You should have some sensitivity to history.-Jaison
EPISODE4
It's so ludricrous that we can't...-Mick
Shambo taken on Jason
EPISODE5
I feel like I got a hit by a train today.-Shambo
EPISODE6
Your blood pressure plummeted.
Right now seems like an opportune moment.-Monica
EPISODE7
No more glass half-empty.
EPISODE8
I'm incredibly embarrassed.-Jaison
Laura is digging her own grave.-Russell
What was the consensus?-Russell
EPISODE9
You got tons of time.
He's a sneaky man-kelly
EPISODE10
I hope that Galu sticks together. -Laura
EPISODE11
Don't make me throw up on your face.-Shambo
EPISODE12
You passed up chicken.
EPISODE13
But now I'm nervous that Russell is gonna come after me so we gotta nip this
in the bud soon.-Jaison
I beg to differ about that.-Russell
EPISODE14
Jaison walked up to me immediately.-Russell
EPISODE15
They lost the glue that held them together.
He scoured the camp.
The fact that is actually on the horizon is a little shocking.
EPISODE16
The man who lived through this moment.

Take on To oppose in competition
Nip in the bud Put a stop to something while it is still in its early development.




"GOSSIP GIRL"(SEASON1)

EPISODE1 Pilot
Jenny used up all the invites.-Blair
I wish I could have been there.-Serena
I'm gonna put everything in the past.
Dress down a little bit.-Dan

EPISODE 2 The Wild brunch
You are not who I thought you were.

EPISODE 3 Poison Ivy
I thought you were getting soft.-Chuck

Nail that interview today.-father
Do you have one maternal bone in your entire body?- Serena
Short fuse. I'm trying to work on that.- Danny
Are we square?-Serena
So not remotely funny.-Danny

EPISODE 4 Bad news Blair
All right, gents, ante up.

EPISODE 5 Dare Devil
It looks like we finally found a common ground.- Danny

EPISODE 6 The Handmaiden's Tale
Revitalize your flagging career.-Serena's mom

EPISODE 7 Victor/Victrola
If we know Chuck ,he's not one to let things lie.-gossip girl
I was born loaded.-Chuck

EPISODE 8 Seventeen Candles
It'll be cleared up in time.-nate's dad
You nauseate me.-upset make nauseated- Blair
Care to make a wager? Chuck

EPISODE 9 Blair Waldorf Must Pie
She gave me the boot.-serena
It looks like i'll have to slip out for a few minutes.- nate's dad
You're asleep at the wheel. -Rufus

EPISODE 10 Hi,Society
I stood up for you- Serena

EPISODE 11 Roman Holiday
it's a sore subject.-eleanor

EPISODE 12 School Lies
I don't abide dishonesty.
Blair Waldorf is not indebted to anyone.-Blair

EPISODE 13 A Thin Line between Chuck and Nate
Your bestfriend has kept you in the dark.
Clean slate.-Serena and Blair
The pot calling the kettle black.
Props to Blair. She trained you well.

EPISODE 14 The Blair Bitch Project
don't rub it in-rufus

EPISODE 15 Desperately seeking Serena
My stomach started acting up again.-serena
I was thinking on my feet.-chuck

EPISODE 16 All About My Brother
All that good behaviour from the past few weeks just got wiped out from that lie.-RUFUS

EPISODE 17 Woman on the verge
i thought we were past all of this, Serena.-Lily

EPISODE 18 Much "I do" about Nothing
Hash out the details.-Lily


SURVIVOR GUATAMELA
EPISODE 1
My paternal instinct...-Gary
EPISODE 2
On one hand....on the other hand...
EPISODE3
The person that I would have chose would have been Brianna.-Lydia
I'm cordial with her.-Brianna
Unforgiving heat
EPISODE4
Margaret spoke up.
I just have to put faith in them.-Lydia
EPISODE5
Unfortunately ,it's just the way it goes sometimes...Dani
I perked up.-Blake
I like to keep the dream alive.-Bobby John
EPISODE6
This is a crucial opportunity.
EPISODE7
He gets so pump up.-Cindy
She just pushed my buttons.-Judd
EPISODE8
My odds of getting this immunity idol is alittle bit low.-Rafe
EPISODE9
I'm sorry i didn't see that sooner.-Jamie
EPISODE10
You're sadly mistaken.-Steph
EPISODE11
Jealousy gets you nowhere.-Steph
Lydia is so easily swayed.Rafe
EPISODE12
This game just took a change in a very big way.
EPISODE13
I'm gonna beat the odds.-Cindy
FINALE
I stuck around.-Dani

24-SEASON 1

You got my word
You should have thought it through.
He's a loose cannon.
Nina's stonewalling.
You'll get through this.
Chinwag.
That is out of line.
I'm just a little flustered.
I'll stop patronizing you.
Don't talk down to me.
Geoge is the mole.
I'm not defying you.

SEASON 2
You know the system inside out.
Are we making headway?
It's not gonna fly.
grow from our misfortunes.
I'm kind of a coffee junkie.
What's the word at the airport?
She's just regurgitating everything that Sayid ali ever taught her.
I appreciate your candor.
We're not gonna put up with racism or xenophobia.
Everybody has a breaking point.
You're putting words in his mouth.
Not every hunch works out.
It concerns national security.

SEASON 3
That's not likely, is it?
Take it up with Jack.
At least run it by her before you go.
I'm done putting my ass on the line for nothing.
Kidnapping is a felony.
scrawny boy

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

GROUP CLASS TOPICS

Styles Of Anger

Each of us develops their own special style of anger:

* The "Mad Hatter" Driver: This person yells, curses, and offers gestures to other drivers when s/he
is in a hurry and frustrated.

* The Sulker: This person shuts down in a chair and stops speaking and looking at others.

* Safe Haven Abuser: This person takes her/his frustration out only on the ones s/he loves.

* The Distractor: This person disregards the object of his annoyance by reading the paper, forgetting
to run an errand, or playing the radio too loudly. When s/he is confronted, the response is:
I didn't know; I forgot; I'm tired.

* The Blamer: This person blames everybody for everything and rarely accepts responsibility for his own
short comings.

* The Avenger: This person believes s/he has been given the right to seek vengeance in any way for anything
by using the excuse: they deserved it.


Cyberspace addiction

If your daughter just spent an entire beautiful weekend tweaking her MySpace page, foregoing a trip with the family to an amusement park, she may be showing signs of addiction. If you checked your Internet browser’s history only to find out your innocent, naïve teenage son has spent the last five afternoons accessing pornographic Web sites where the titles alone are enough to make you blush, he may be addicted.

The Internet is a seductive place, especially for today’s linked-in teens who are far more likely to add graffiti to their friend’s Facebook wall than they are to actually get on their bicycle and ride over to that same friend’s house. You have to admit it would be a challenge to connect face-to-face with someone you’ve never met in person and who lives in a different time zone.

Therein lies the problem. The Internet is perfect for teens. Today’s social networking sites like MySpace, Facebook, and Twitter let them represent themselves as whomever, or whatever, they want. Everything is edited by them, chosen specifically to present the face they want the world to see. And if they decide to change that face, then they just delete some pictures, add some new friends, and voila’ – new person!

Experts say that as many as 10 percent of Internet users may be considered addicted, although some mental health professionals balk at using that term in a clinical sense. They argue that an activity can only be addictive when it causes a certain type of chemical reaction in the brain, and that’s hard to determine. But when you’re arguing with a teen about the amount of time she’s spending online and she just can’t get her paper done because her AOL Instant Messenger keeps alerting her something new and exciting is happening with her best friend, then call it what you like, it’s a problem – for you, the child, and the entire family.

Many parents feel torn, though, about limiting their children’s time on the computer. If a teen is struggling socially, some parents believe any human interaction, even through the computer, is preferable to none. And with teens that are risk-takers or have questionable taste in friends, some parents feel they can better monitor and keep their children safe by letting them stay home, downloading music files and creating quizzes for their Web pages. And many parents just want to avoid the tantrums, the cold shoulder, or the arguments that flare whenever the issue of computer time management comes up.

There are a couple of Web sites that you and your child can visit together to assess their level of addiction. Try the addiction quizzes at netaddiction.com or mediafamily.org. Even if you don’t actually believe your child is addicted, the tests are a good way to initiate some dialogue and get them thinking about how they are spending their time.

‘Parents are too permissive with their children nowadays’

Few people would defend the Victorian attitude to children, but if you were a parent in those days, at least you knew where you stood: children were to be seen and not hear 848f514i d.
Freud and company did away with all that and parents have been bewildered ever since.
The child’s happiness is all-important, the psychologists say, but what about the parents’ happiness?
Parents suffer constantly from fear and guilt while their children gaily romp about pulling the place apart. A good old-fashioned spanking is out of the question: no modern child-rearing manual would permit such barbarity. The trouble is you are not allowed even to shout. Who knows what deep psychological wounds you might inflict? The poor child may never recover from the dreadful traumatic experience. So it is that parents bend over backwards to avoid giving their children complexes which a hundred years ago hadn’t even been heard of. Certainly a child needs love, and a lot of it. But the excessive permissiveness of modern parents is surely doing more harm than good.

Psychologists have succeeded in undermining parents’ confidence in their own authority.
And it hasn’t taken children long to get wind of the fact. In addition to the great modern classics on child care, there are countless articles in magazines and newspapers. With so much unsolicited advice flying about, mum and dad just don’t know what to do any more. In the end, they do nothing at all. So, from early childhood, the kids are in charge and parents lives are regulated according to the needs of their offspring. When the little dears develop into teenagers, they take complete control. Lax authority over the years makes adolescent rebellion against parents all the more violent. If the young people are going to have a party, for instance, parents are asked to leave the house. Their presence merely spoils the fun. What else can the poor parents do but obey?

Children are hardy creatures (far hardier than the psychologists would have us believe) and most of them survive the harmful influence of extreme permissiveness which is the normal condition in the modern household. But a great many do not. The spread of juvenile delinquency in our own age is largely due to parental laxity. Mother, believing that little Johnny can look after himself, is not at home when he returns from school, so little Johnny roams the streets. The dividing-line between permissiveness and sheer negligence is very fine indeed.

The psychologists have much to answer for. They should keep their mouths shut and let parents get on with the job. And if children are knocked about a little bit in the process, it may not really matter too much. At least this will help them to develop vigorous views of their own and give them something positive to react against. Perhaps there’s some truth in the idea that children who’ve had a surfeit of happiness in their childhood emerge like stodgy puddings and fail to make a success of life.

 
Why (non-creepy) eye contact with strangers is a good thing
New research suggests doing your fellow humans a favor and acknowledging strangers you pass on the street: findings reveal that a smile or a simple nod, rather than deliberately ignoring someone or worse, staring straight through them, helps people feel less lonely and more connected."Ostracism is painful," study researcher Eric Wesselmann, a social psychologist at Purdue University in Indiana, told Live Science. "Sometimes, colloquially, I like to say ostracism sucks. It's not a pleasant experience."

He and his team presented their findings, published in February in the journal
Psychological Science, at an annual meeting of the Society for the Study of Motivation in Chicago last week.

To reach their findings, Wesselmann and his team set up an experiment on a well-populated campus area. A research assistant walked along a busy path, picked a subject, and either met that person's eyes, met their eyes and smiled, or looked in the direction of the person's eyes, but past them -- "looking at them as if they were air," Wesselmann described.

After the person passed, another researcher stopped the subject and asked him or her to fill out a quick survey on social connectedness, with questions such as "Within the last minute, how disconnected do you feel from others?" Meanwhile, the subject remained uninformed that the person they just passed was connected to the survey.
The survey results showed that being ignored by a stranger had a significant emotional impact, with those receiving the distant stare relaying stronger feelings of isolation.

Granted, as Live Science reports, every city and country has its own set of street rules. For instance, smiling at strangers on a Paris or New York subway may be met with a certain disdain, or perhaps encourage unwanted advances. Yet in other cities, it is considered simply polite.

But regional differences aside, researchers acknowledge that staring right through someone is "off-putting anywhere." And in any case, loneliness and isolation is considered a growing problem in countries such as the US, the UK, and Japan, according to media reports.

John Cacioppo, Ph.D., author of several books including Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection and professor at the University of Chicago, suggests that extending yourself is vital to feeling less lonely -- get involved with a charity or class, or volunteer your time to meet new people outside your usual realm.

He also recommends thinking more positively. Optimism will draw a more consistent and positive response from others and help reinforce social connectedness. As you become more open and positive about new situations and people, subtle changes can happen in your attitude and perception of loneliness, he says -- and perhaps you may even find yourself smiling at strangers throughout your day.

TEXTBOOK APPROACH

LEVEL 3:


READING APPROACH: approximately 5 minutes

Teacher role: The teacher is the coach ; the students are clients.
Direct Method: Stresses pronunciation

Situational language teaching:
Teacher role: context setter and error corrector

How to teach idioms:
Use the Free writing approach: It's a strategy for encouraging students to express ideas in writing.

CONTEMPORARY TOPIC-English language learners want to share experiences and insights on contemporary topics and expand their practical and academic vocabulary.

These are based on current topics and contain assorted jargon or controversial subjects to
promote discussion.

CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS- It encourages discussions , model excellent communication, and develop critical thinking skills.

CORRECTION APPROACH- Teachers should identify them and try to negotiate with their students.
For instance, some people like to be corrected on the spot , others after the exercises.

ORAL COMMUNICATION SKILLS-Students who are practicing their oral communication skills in English
will benefit from this book.
This conversation lessons can also be combined with vocabulary lessons.

RELEVANCE-The most important thing to remember when choosing ESL speaking activities is relevance.
Make sure that the student has the necessary language skills to talk about a particular subject , as well as find the topic interesting.

AMERICAN IDIOMATIC LANGUAGE-This book focus on giving students a hand when learning American idiomatic language.
There are also a number of exercises designed to help students put their new found idiomatic understanding into use.


GRO METHOD For helping students improve. It's more student focused.

G- for GROWING students knowledge by getting new information
R- Is the portion of the lesson for student reaction.
O -Is for the students to OPTIMIZE their use of the language by making it more personal and relevant.

MY ARTICLES

Why study in the Philippines?

Few countries in Asia can match the country when it
comes to providing quality education and fun at the same
time. Immersion in English is possible in the Philippines
due to the large number of English speakers and
English-language schools.

The Philippines is the only truly bilingual country in Asia.
As the world's 3rd largest English- speaking nation ,the
Philippines provides huge knowledge resources, up-to-date
instruction, and a multicultural learning atmosphere.

American films are very popular. People flock to the cinema
everyday to watch the latest English movies and they are
neither subtitled nor dubbed in the local dialect. English is
used in government documents, in the media and for business
purposes.

The Philippines is known for its people's hospitality and
joyfulness. Visitors everywhere marvel at the way they are
treated in each place they visit.

Aside from learning the English language, students get to
see the beautiful scenery of the Philippine countryside and
immerse with the local culture."The Philippines prides itself
of natural wonders and treasures, ranging from luscious
mountains, white sandy beaches, crystal clear seawater
and coral reefs teeming with marine life.

In addition, the Philippines has a low cost of living, making
it an appealing place for foreign students to stay and live.
It is an alternative destination that offers the same quality
English education but at a much lesser expense. The cost of
living does not put pressure on the students' financial
resources. Students are able to live comfortably and
conveniently even on a very limited budget.

So If you want a reputation for excellence that will enhance
your educational horizons. Well, what are you waiting for?
Pack your things up and study in the Philippines.
I'll see you then.